by vanteam | Jul 26, 2020 | Uncategorized
Self care. We’ve all heard about it but what does it really mean and how can you learn to practice it effectively and in a meaningful way?It is a lifestyle choice that many women need but which few of us allow ourselves to indulge. Well and Good offers some insight...
by Dee Chan | Dec 26, 2019 | Borderline Personality
Being called manipulative when you have Borderline Personality Disorder is very discouraging Many people who have BPD end up being scapegoated by their families but it is important to remember that BPD does not form in a vacuum. It tends to form in people who grow up...
by Dee Chan | Feb 28, 2018 | Borderline Personality
Email is never a good way to try to resolve conflict so don’t do it. Instead, when you want to deliver an assertive message to someone try to do it in person, face to face. If you are not able to do that, however, and HAVE to resort to doing it by email, this is...
by Dee Chan | Jan 24, 2018 | Borderline Personality
We all want to be loved and needed. I think that’s one of the core parts of being human. It is important to us. But when it becomes pathological it causes problems. Many people with BPD become huge people pleasers because they want to be loved and needed by everyone...
by Dee Chan | Nov 22, 2017 | Borderline Personality
People who have BPD often have tremendous issues with anger — both expressing it and being the recipient of it. They will often go to extreme lengths to make people happy in order to avoid having people get angry at them. The flip side of that is that they themselves...
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