My biological mother abandoned me when I was about six months. At least that’s the way the story goes. No one really knows for sure. The doctor who worked at the orphanage where I was dropped off assessed me to be about six months old. But since I was abandoned with no identifying information it was impossible for anyone to know for sure.Read More
The fact that you even wrote this to me says so much:
“I don’t think I’m indifferent of your distress or suffering. If I was indifferent, it would have been bye-bye for good. That’s for sure.
Email is never a good way to try to resolve conflict so don't do it. Instead, when you want to deliver an assertive message to someone try to do it in person, face to face. If you are not able to do that, however, and HAVE to resort to doing it by email, this is an example of how to write it.Read More
Passive-aggressive behavior is very toxic. It is actually a very hostile way of interacting with people and once you understand what it is, you can work to stop engaging in it.
People who are passive-aggressive live on an emotional roller coaster.Read More
t is not a stretch to say that most people who have BPD have great problems with both fear and anger. We tend to be very fearful in general as well as being angry at most things. I think the fearfulness comes from deep-seated events in childhood, usually having to do with being neglected or abandoned by the primary caregiver.Read More
When you wake up and take a look at certain things in your life and see that they need changing it should be simple, right? You just change what needs changing so you can move forward. But people are almost pathologically resistant to change and today I want to explore why that is the case.Read More